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A Year Of Learning About Money
Since I started writing this blog back at the end of January 2008, I have learned a lot about money and managing my family’s finances. I never considered myself “bad with money”, but I knew we were doing a lot of things that were getting in the way of our financial success.
My wife and I attended a class through our church called Financial Peace University. The class, put together by Dave Ramsey, really opened our eyes to some things we were doing that were hampering our financial success.
In the spirit of sharing some of the things we’ve learned along our road to financial peace, here is a list of 10 things I’ve learned about money since I started blogging.
10 Things I Have Learned About Money
- Having debt is not a good thing: A lot of times you’ll hear about how having and using debt is just a tool that people have in their arsenal as they work on their way towards becoming financially stable, and eventually, wealthy. What I’ve learned these past few months is that debt will cut short any gains you hope to make. I’ve learned that:
The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender. Proverbs 22:7
When you have debt, you are a servant. Only once you have gotten rid of your debt and are living free can you truly work on your way towards true financial independence.
- To truly succeed with money, you must have a plan: Not having a plan means you are planning to fail. If you really want to have financial success you need to set up a family budget, have family budget meetings, and set financial goals for both the long term, and the short term. As the bible states:
A wise man thinks ahead; a fool doesn’t, and even brags about it! Proverbs 13:16
- Having money does not mean having happiness: True happiness does not come from having things, or from having money. When you have money, you only want more.
Whoever loves money never has money enough; whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with his income. This too is meaningless. Ecclesiastes 5:10
Money is a never ending black hole where you never have enough. True happiness comes from having a strong faith in God, and knowing your true worth is found in Christ, and not in things of this world. Once you realize that, it makes it so much easier to be happy!
- Lending money to friends and family is almost always a mistake: One thing I’ve come to realize is that lending money to family or friends is almost never going to be a good thing. By the nature of it, when you lend money it changes the relationship from one of family, to one of master and servant (see the verse above about the borrower being slave to the lender). If you’re going to give money to family, give it and don’t lend it. By the same token, don’t co-sign. There is usually a reason why someone needs a co-signer.
- Giving helps not only the person you’re giving to, but helps you as well: Sometimes you feel like you don’t have anything to give, or you can’t afford to. I’ve found this year that when you make a plan, you will always have something to give.
Give generously to him and do so without a grudging heart; then because of this the Lord your God will bless you in all your work and in everything you put your hand to. Deuteronomy 15:10
Giving isn’t always easy, but when you do, you will be blessed. Earlier this year when my wife and I actually started giving more regularly, I found that the amount we had started giving, was almost exactly the amount I had started making on this blog. When you give even when you don’t know if the income is there – God will provide.
- No need to worry, God will provide: We went through some very hard things earlier this year when my wife was hospitalized for almost a month and we had medical bills in excess of $250,000. If we hadn’t had insurance we would have gone bankrupt. If we hadn’t been saving for a rainy day through our emergency fund we would have gone deeply in debt.God knows what we need, even before we need it. Even if we aren’t able to provide for ourselves, he will find a way.
Do not worry then, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear for clothing?’ For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. Matthew 6:31-32
- Start saving as early as you can: The earlier you start saving for your future, the better off you’ll be. Interest that you earn on your money compounds at an amazing rate if you start saving early. The wonders of compounding interest! It’s never too late to start!
The plans of the diligent lead surely to advantage, but everyone who is hasty comes surely to poverty. Proverbs 21:5
- We are only stewards of everything we have: God has given us so much material wealth here in America. We must remember, however, that everything we have is God’s. We are only stewards of these things for a short time, and we must be careful how we use what we are given. We must use what we have for God’s glory.
For every beast of the forest is Mine, the cattle on a thousand hills. I know every bird of the mountains, and everything that moves in the field is Mine. If I were hungry I would not tell you, for the world is Mine, and all it contains. Psalm 50:10-12
- “Easy money” is almost never actually easy. Get rich quick schemes often don’t make you rich quick: There are a lot of get rich quick schemes out there offering quick and easy riches. I’ve learned through experience that “easy money” or “getting rich quick” is almost never easy or quick. Most often the best way to make money is through hard work, and saving little by little.
Dishonest money dwindles away, but he who gathers money little by little makes it grow. Proverbs 13:11
- Having your integrity is more important than having wealth: It can be easy to be lured by the siren song of quick riches, and to sell our soul to gain wealth. We can rationalize just about anything in order to justify doing things that are not very ethical, or just plain wrong. It is better to keep your integrity and not have as much. From Proverbs:
Better is a little with righteousness than great income with injustice. Proverbs 16:8
So there it is, 10 things I have learned about money in the past 6 months.
What are some things you’ve learned about money that you’d like to share with others? Leave a comment and tell us all about it!
Great list! I’ve learned that credit cards can be a short trip to crushing debt if you’re not careful. Only spend what you actually have for most things. (Some things, like medical bills and homes, etc. don’t really offer that option.)
Great post! I think you and I started learning about the same time… excellent summary and I look forward to learning with you in the future!
Thanks – and Good luck on finishing up the move!
Another great verse on debt is Romans 13:8
Owe no man any thing, but to love one another. For he that loveth his neighbour, hath fulfilled the law.
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Love the blog, I started in January as well and I couldn’t be more happy with what I have learned in fpu.
one thing is that you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink.
and also how great it feels to give when you have to give.
last thing is…. never mind I have learned to much it will end up being a book when i am done
Great post and blog
I have just begun to get my finances in order and my quest started with a stewardship sermon series at my local church. One verse that really hit home was Deuteronomy 8: 17-18
“Say not then, in your hearts, My power and the strength of my hands have got me this wealth. But keep in mind the Lord your God: for it is he who gives you the power to get wealth, so that he may give effect to the agreement which he made by his oath with your fathers, as at this day.”
This verse really hits home that my way is the wrong way, it was all given by God and we need to take care of it and also give back.
Austin, TheOrangePaper Guy says
A great post.
May be you should’ve titled this post as The 10 ‘Financial’ Commandments ;)
Looking forward to reading more here.
Those tips are great. I learned lesson #4 the hard way – and I’m sure others have had to learn these lessons the hard way as well. It’s good that Dave is giving this advice so people can learn from his experience instead of repeating the financial mistakes of others.
David Brown says
God always wants you to live a life of abudance…
John 10:10 I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.
Ph. 4:19 But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.
God is your master and you are his servant…he cares for you when no one else care about what happens to you… With God as your Master the following will happen…
Ep.3:20 Now unto him that is able to do exceeding-ly abundantly above all that we ask or think, ac-cording to the power that worketh in us,
Ps. 36:8 They shall be abundantly satisfied with the fatness of thy house; and thou shalt make them drink of the river of thy pleasures.
II Co. 9:8 And God is able to make all grace abound toward you; that ye, always having all sufficiency in all things, may abound to every good work:
II Pe. 1:11 For so an entrance shall be minister-ed unto you abundantly into the everlasting king-dom of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Amen
Each of the above verses tell you that God wants you to live your life in peace, good health, and to prosper….Jesus care for and about you…
When you are no longer bound to “Debt” you can tithe more effectively, ie; Mark 12:41-44
V. 41 And Jesus sat over against the treasury, and beheld how the people cast money into the treasury; and many that were rich cast in much.
V. 42 And there came a certain poor widow, and she threw in two mites, which make a farthing.
V. 43 And he called unto him his disciples, and saith unto them, Verily I say unto you, That this
poor widow hath cast more in, than all they which have cast into the treasury:
V. 44 For all they did cast in of their abundance;
but she of her want did cast in all that she had, even all her living.
Those 4 verses break my heart every time I read and pray on them… All that we have belongs to God the Father…Ruler of all heaven and earth.
That widow has won the glory of God, because she gaven everything to the most High God and all of her needs will be his pleasure to give her…
David Brown I always enjoy a chat (Retired)
God Bless you all that read this posting…
Great advice! These 10 cover a lot of the basics as far as personal finance goes. Keep on writing man.
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Chico Rowland says
Thanks Peter. We are working on our debt using the snowball model. Have you heard of it?
Oh you need to read my blog more :) Yes, i blog about it a lot here. For example:
To Debt Snowball or Debt Avalanche, That Is The Question
Pay Off All Debt Using The Debt Snowball
Why The Debt Snowball Works
Debt Snowball: Pay Off The Smaller Debts First
Great post! Congrats on winning the FMF “final four.”
You can’t go wrong with these as your roadmap. I am also very impressed with David Brown’s “Abundant” comment.
The only one I would add is Proverbs 27:23 “Be diligent to know the state of your flocks, and look well to your herds” I wrote a post about it (follow link).
Great post, great blog, great comments!
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