Much like most of us, none of my family is in need, or, really, wants for anything (to the point of ridiculousness, in my opinion!). This year, my husband and I decided to donate to various charities in the names of each of my siblings’ kids, with a small, token gift from us for them to open. I also asked them, if they felt the need to give us a gift, to respond in kind, i.e., donations to a food bank or other local charity. We also don’t need any more “stuff” – not really.

We shall see.

You can also give the gift of your time, of your attention, of your love and of your compassion.

All of which are obviously free.

I don’t give gifts begrudgingly. If the giving isn’t cheerful, I won’t do it. There came a point in my life where I felt I could no longer waste the resources given me on people who already have so much. It just doesn’t sit right with me when others are suffering.

Everyone has a birthday. If I chose to do so, I could buy them a gift then. However, Christmas isn’t about giving presents to anyone other than Christ to me. If I had children, it’s quite likely I’d give them gifts simply because they probably wouldn’t be able to fully appreciate the position I’ve taken.

Now I don’t have any research to support this theory, but I think people are more likely to give gifts that aren’t as meaningful on Christmas because they have so many people to think of in a relatively, albeit self inflicted, short period of time.
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I’ve been working away madly in the evenings making loft beds for my boys that I’ll install on Christmas Eve with their new (to them) desks. I’m not sure how’s going to be more excited. I love an excuse to do something like that and I fully enjoy where I can celebrate the greatest gift ever given and my family and friends. Christmas Eve also happened to be the day that I accepted Christ so for me it holds even more meaning. I don’t mean to disparage your choices but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with giving.
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A while back I baked some cookies for a cousin, put them in a tin can, and gave them to her for Christmas. I think that was one of the most thoughtful and inexpensive Christmas gifts I’ve ever given. I especially admire those who give handmade gifts like @Matt Jabs.

But I’ll admit, giving to those less fortunate has given me an excuse to be lazy. If someone is in need of basic necessities, you buy them: directly or indirectly. It’s just too easy.
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