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Frugal Living And Cutting Back
When we think about frugal living, there are a number of easy things we turn to to cut back on costs: cheaper food, using less car, eating out less. But what about all the unconscious spending habits we’ve acquired, or those other ways of parting with our money that we often forget about? For a moment I want to make you think about some of your own “money traps” – places where your usual rules seem to “go out the window” at just the wrong time. Here are some of mine.
Try To Avoid These 10 Dumb Ways of Wasting Money
- Tourist traps. The main culprit here are the “gift shops” which persuade you into thinking that you’re never going to be able to remember the nice time you had unless you buy the t-shirt or gizmo, which of course, is only available on location at the site. “Get your picture taken next to the ____” or sites located in the middle of nowhere that have one tiny cafe that sells water for $5.00 a bottle – take your own picture and bring your own water! Gift shops are great – for looking maybe. Next time you’re in one, try to remember where all that stuff is going to go when you get back home – or if there’s even enough room in your suitcase for it in the first place.
- Travel Books and Maps. While maybe these shouldn’t be considered an outright “waste” of money, I think they’re very unnecessary for a number of reasons. If you spend on these at least don’t buy the brand new ones. Travel books go out of date; they’re heavy (when you want to travel light); if you have a laptop you can always or usually find an internet connection somewhere and get your info that way. Do your research online – all maps are also online. You can print them off. Finally, just talk to the locals as well for great, current ideas on how and where to spend your time. Besides, are you ever going to use that travel guide again once you’re back from vacation?
- Library/video rental fines. An obvious one, hopefully a bit easier to avoid these days with the slow disappearance of “late” fees. I bet I’ve lost at least a thousand dollars on this mistake.
- Speeding/parking tickets. Luckily I’ve only had about three of these in my life, but it still doesn’t feel good to have to fork over $25-$80 because of parking in the wrong place or not coming to a very full stop. This one’s a no-brainer if you’re trying to save money.
- Getting ripped off. Recently I tried a new Vietnamese restaurant in my area and had the pad thai. Within five minutes of leaving the restaurant (after not being able to finish the meal), I became violently nauseous. Unfortunately, I had to get sick in a public place. Luckily, I felt quickly better as soon as the food was out of my system – the problem was obviously something in the food. I spent $15 on that meal, but I didn’t go back to try to get my money back. I should have. I did end up going back the next day to tell them about it, but I couldn’t bring myself to ask for the money. Make sure you eat your food slowly (for this reason among others!) and make sure you’re getting value for what you pay for. Check your receipts and statements and inquire about anything that doesn’t make sense.
- Get Rich Quick (or Eventually!) Services, aka “How to Make Money Doing X”. Sometimes it makes sense to spend money to make money. Other times it doesn’t. Unfortunately it takes some experience to be able to make a judgment either way. I confess, I once bought one of those “adsense secrets”-type books for ten bucks. I wish I hadn’t. All that information is already on the web somewhere if you take the time to read it and filter it all out and test it for yourself. Other bloggers will help you too, and often post about their experiences.
- Buying too much furniture and “house stuff” before you’re ready or able to settle down. This might apply more to those just starting out, but I made the mistake of getting “house-happy” etc. and buying great living accessories when I didn’t even have a full-time job to pay for them, let alone a mortgage or long-term lease. And if you’re already settled in a house, reconsider what you really need to fill it with. Don’t spend on kitsch knick-knacks and decorations. Sometimes less is more, and I think that applies here. Keep your home a minimalist oasis, a place for relaxation. It’s more practical and will help energize your life as well as save you money. Remember, you have to take care of all these things and someday you’ll probably end up just selling many at a garage sale, so just don’t buy them. Invest that money instead.
- Skip the DVDs, CDs and Magazines/Newspapers. Unless you have a professional need for these, it’s much easier nowadays to rent or buy/watch these and listen/read online for a fraction of the cost of buying them. No, I’m not advocating stealing them by burning them for free, despite what “open-source” advocates argue for. Producers need to be paid for their work. I’m just saying that not only is it less expensive for you, but you don’t have to worry about storing them or misplacing them. Simplify your life! Help the environment. It’s not just the paper but all the ink that goes into these publications that matters.
- Gift-giving for the Wrong People and the Wrong Reasons. Gifts make sense when they’re genuine and meaningful, not when they’re expected or part of some social obligation. Opt-out of Hallmark cards and token party gifts except in cases that really reflect your values. Don’t be guilted into spending money on gifts, especially because these so often coincide with the heavily-marketed calendrical holidays that usually go hand-in-hand with candy so you can thin your wallet and loosen your belt.
- Unexpected purchases under $5.00. These are tricky and can’t be listed in advance. They’re hard to notice because they cost so little. We won’t even think about buying them because it feels like the price doesn’t matter – it won’t make much of a dent on our card, after all. I’d say it might be worth trying to make a list of all the things you buy for less than $5.00 and see what you learn. How much of it is really necessary? Are you spending a lot more on gum than you think? How will it make you feel to know that at the end of the month you not only ate 20 chocolate bars but spent $35 to do so? Uugh.
Some purchases might seem extravagant (a Starbucks latte) but might add quite a bit to quality of life (spending an hour chatting/reading in the cafe). If a purchase adds to your life experience or education, then I’d say it’s giving you something back. But if you can find an effective, cheaper substitute for it, then I’d try to do so.
What are your money traps? Do you share any of the above? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below.
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My dad got a speeding ticket a couple of weekends back. The lawyer to get it dropped will set him back $300+. Definetly not worth it, especially since speeding burns more gas too.
The Weakonomists last blog post..Six Lessons Star Wars Can Teach Us About Money
I think number 10 is a big one. Those little $5 expenses just slip through the cracks, and before you know if you’ve spent $50 on ’stuff’…
Jeff@StretchyDollars last blog post..Sticking to a Budget
Wise words. We need to teach our kids these too.
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@Jeff – exactly. Then again it’s also “the little things” that can brighten up our day (my day has an important place for Starbucks), so we have to balance these with what really adds value.
@Weakonomist – ouch! Spending on a lawyer to remove the ticket – was the ticket worth more than $300? That’s some speeding ticket.
MoneyEnergys last blog post..Don’t Wait Until You’re 50 To Start Preserving Your Wealth
#7 hits home hard. Thankfully, most of our furniture is hand-me-downs from friends and family, because after the amount of times we’ve moved, each piece has more dings and pieces missing than I can count.
I’m not buying a single piece of furniture, save maybe for an office chair, until we have a permanent home.
I don’t think travel guides are def a waste of money because they are handy. Requires the right one and I understand what you mean, they get outdated. But like any book you buy, it just sits on the shelf.
Those small purchases like buying a hot dog or slice of pizza I don’t need but get an impulse craving hurt me.
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I think the Travel Books really depends on where you’re going. If you’re going to, say, Disneyworld, or a national park or a big city, I would say you’re right. However, when we went to Nicaragua, the best thing to have was a few different guide books. We found a place to eat and spend the night in each city from the books. But that’s the sort of place where it makes more sense.
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One thing I am guilty of is not doing rebates. I will make purchases based on the price of an item minus the rebate. Then, I get home, one thing leads to another, and before I know it, I have lost the receipt, can’t find the box with the bar code I need, or when I do get around to filing for it, its expired. The only way I have fixed this (most of the time) is to immediately give everything to my wife who is the nerd of our family and she is pretty good about getting it sent off.
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You got me at #1, congrats :p
I went to the Dominican Republic and bought two of these pictures.
But where else will you have a professional photograph of your g/f taken… on the beach… with 2 parrots on her feet and shoulder (in one)! Or a monkey on her head (in the other)!
good points everyone:) yes, these gift shop items and travel books can be a real trade off – it depends where you’re going, perhaps. Obviously if you’re camping in wilderness you better have a map just in case.
@Wojciech – yes, if you can use “used” furniture or other pieces your family doesn’t need anymore (that aren’t considered special heirlooms, etc.) all the better, that’s what recycling’s all about. Good compromise between going without and buying brand new!
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Nice list. My addition is the ’single pack’ servings of crackers, pretzles, potato chips, etc. They’re about 4X the price per pound of the larger size, and you can send the kids to school with a little bag or re-usable container with a portion. Takes a few seconds to put them in the lunch bag.
My town is part of a library network that lets you reserve books or videos on line. A bit of patience, and the DVDs are free for a week.
I find that it is those little $5 purchases that “I deserve” that get me in trouble. You know how it goes… I’ve worked so hard today, I deserve that latte or I have stayed on budget for a month, I deserve to make a little comfort purchase. They are never big things but if they happen frequently, they add up.
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Nice post and several interesting bits of advice that look good. You *do* need to understand something, though. “Open Source” (and it doesn’t need quotes–it’s a real phenomenon) is not a group of piracy advocates. Open Source is a movement to make source code for software openly available. Consequently, this code is free, but there’s nothing in the ideology or method of development that says that piracy is ok.
Ditto Matt. Open source and piracy are entirely different altogether. I highly recommend reading up on what open source is and taking full (legal, of course) advantage of it.
great tips! it’s hard when looking at a great travel book or magazine or any other media to stop and think, “can i find this on the internet?” with so many great blogs out there, the answer is usually yes. thanks for the reminder.
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One of my money traps is going to the drugstore and waiting for a prescription to be filled. I just fell into the trap again this morning!
I don’t like coming back to get my meds, so I will hang around and wait. I get a shopping cart and walk around. I always see something that I need (or think I need): cat food tins, single wrapped tissues, make-up, nail polish, the latest People magazine, even vitamins (when I know I can buy them cheaper elsewhere). I often end up spending 60 bucks in addition to the medication! UGH.