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“Did you watch American Idol?”

“Hey about that guy on the Today Show this morning?”

“When’s the game on tonight?”

When you start paying attention, it is amazing to find how many conversations rely on television. You only start noticing when you don’t have it.

I’ve only had cable television for two years of the last ten. I am now in a period sans television.

You wouldn’t know it talking to me. I follow enough news and celebrity gossip online to know what’s going on. I am only sometimes completely out of the loop.

“Why don’t you just get cable?” people have asked me.

I’ve found there are several reasons (some monetary but mostly personal health-related) to not have cable.

1. I save the money I would pay on a cable bill. The two years I did have cable, it was included in my rent. I find that I can find better ways to spend $60 or more a month. . . like high speed internet.
2. I save money on electricity to run the television. Sure there is a television that we have to watch movies but not running the television means one less electronic device is running.
3. If you do have a favorite show, there are plenty of ways to watch it without having cable. You can watch many shows online. You can also rent or buy the DVD of a season of your favorite program. You can borrow from you local library or a friend for free. You can have it all, without commercials, which brings me to…<
4. I’m not constantly seeing commercials that make me want to buy things. While I can’t prove this, I bet people who don’t watch commercials buy less.
5. Television leads to higher incidence of obesity and depression. When I had cable, I was headed towards both as I ended up watching hours of it every day.
6. I have more time to do other things. I walk the dog, I blog, I read… There are so many things in life that I do that not watching television seems like a very small thing to not do.
7. I have less negative energy in my life. I don’t know if it’s less electromagnetic waves or less reality television but I feel like I have less negativity in my life.

All this said, it is clear that I don’t have the willpower to turn off my television. If you can watch an hour or two a day and then turn it off, more power to you. If you can watch television and still do what you need and want to do, good for you. I am not disciplined in that way. And I think maybe at least a few other people aren’t either.

No matter what, I know that having at least one no television night is doable by everyone. As kids my family had it. We ate dinner and played games usually. It was kind of fun, since we were purposely not turning the television. My mom usually made a special snack. I highly recommend it for anyone. If you live alone, make it the night you have friends over for a potluck dinner. When I lived alone, having my friends over one night a week forced me to socialize initially but after a few weeks, I was looking forward to Wednesday nights and the happiness that only real people can provide.

If you do want to watch less television, 43Folders has some great tips. Actually, I’d recommend anyone who thinks television is too big a part in their lives to skim the article because it’s pretty interesting.

So here’s to more money in your pocket and a happier life being less controlled by a cathode ray box.

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We're living in tough times these days. The news pundits are using the word "recession" freely. Even John McCain said it. The prices of milk, eggs, and gasoline are skyrocketing. And the latest news is that Costco and Sam's Club are rationing rice, because there may be a rice shortage.

With all the bad news, it's easy to panic. Will we be able to afford life's necessities? Is my job secure? Is my home's value going to tank?

As Christians, though, we are not to worry. One of my favorite passages of scripture is Matthew 6:25-27.

"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?

There are some things in life that are beyond our control. We can do what we can to prepare. If you feel your job is in jeopardy, start saving money for an emergency fund. If your budget is tight, pay off your debt, so you can free up some money for your monthly budget. Being prepared is important. But sometimes there isn't time to prepare.

Last year my husband lost his job twice. We were somewhat prepared for the first job loss. We had an emergency fund. By the second time he lost his job, we had used most of our emergency fund. Then thanks to an accountant's error, we ended up owing over $5000 in taxes this month. With all those financial hits in succession, there just wasn't time to prepare.

Still, the Lord tells us not to worry. He's got it under control, even if we don't, which seems to be most of the time in my life. Sometimes the road isn't easy. God never promised that it would be. But God does promise to provide for our needs. Food. Shelter. Clothing.

I can testify that we have never gone without life's necessities, despite being in dire financial straits many, many times. And through our recent trials, even though on paper it didn't look like we were going to make it, somehow we kept bringing in enough money to cover our emergencies.

Today, if you're worried about what the future holds, remember that God will never leave you nor forsake you. When times are tough, He is there. When it seems you're alone, He is there. You may not see it now, but when you're through this storm, you'll be able to look back and marvel at His provision.

Have you ever been in a situation where you've witnessed God's miraculous provision?

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One of the most common financial complaints that I hear is that the price of gasoline is too high. I agree that it's tough to see higher fill-up costs at the pump, but I sometimes wonder if some consumers doth protest way too much? Most people have bigger expenses than gasoline to worry about and gas costs are one of easiest expenses to reduce.

Gas prices are visible and frequent

If you own a car and use it regularly, then you will probably be familiar with market gas prices since you probably buy gas at least once or twice a month (or a lot more frequently). Because gas is a commodity and is sold in standard unit prices, it's very easy to compare the price with other gas stations and with the price you paid last week. For most other consumer goods, the unit costs are not as quite as transparent

How much of your budget goes towards gasoline costs?

This will vary widely for different people but in my case we spend about 2% of our net pay on gasoline. This is probably on the low side since we don't use our car everyday. Groceries, on the other hand, take up about 16% of our budget. Keep in mind that our grocery budget includes a lot of common household items such as diapers, kitty litter etc.

My point is that if I want to cut back on our expenses or even just complain about them, I should focus on what's important. Our gasoline bill could double and it wouldn't make a big impact to our budget. If our grocery bill doubled then we would be hurting. I suspect the average consumer has many other expenses which are much bigger than gasoline costs.

How to lower your gas costs

Here are a few ideas on how to lower your gas costs. There are many other lists on the internet which are a lot more comprehensive but I've tried to stick with a few solid ideas that if applicable, will make a significant difference.

Drive less - If you can reduce your driving then you will reduce your gas consumption by a proportional amount. This can accomplished by planning your trips better - if you drive to the grocery store seven times a week then do some planning and cut the trips down to twice a week. If you can carpool or take transit to work instead of driving then you will save money.

Drive slower - the faster and more aggressively you drive, the more gas you burn. No more racing!

If you can't beat 'em, join 'em

Consider investing in oil related companies. The stock prices won't be perfectly correlated to your gasoline costs but over the long run if the price of oil keeps rising then your stocks (I would look into buying an exchange traded fund) should perform well.

Other posts on gasoline prices and driving tips

Frugal Dad says gas prices are still relatively cheap.

My Two Dollars says to stop complaining about gas prices.

Debt Free Revolution delivers pizza so she knows all about gasoline saving driving tips. Check out the funny photo on this post!

Cash Money Life explains hypermiling which is extreme gas savings.

Being Frugal says she doesn't drive as much to save gas.

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Our family follows Dave Ramsey's baby steps, and in a recent post on my blog explaining Baby Step 3, I mentioned "sinking funds." It's a simple financial strategy, and it's not new, but it has enormously helped our family's finances. And I encourage you to start using sinking funds even while paying off debt via the debt snowball.

Simply put, sinking funds are a reserve of money set aside for some purpose. It's a commonly used business and government practice, and it should be part of a healthy personal budget as well. If you think of your family as a company that you've been assigned to manage, it would only make sense to make sure you have funds readily available for the many things that surface on any given year.

Why Sinking Funds are Needed

Think of all those non-monthly payments or purchases you face on a regular basis. For some people, auto insurance shows up once or twice a year. What about new school clothes for your kiddos? These aren't things you spend money on each month, but you still need to pay for them when they show up.

Nothing can screw up a debt-free plan quite like these irregular expenses. In fact, I'll bet that's how many people find themselves in debt.

"What? Christmas is only three weeks away? There's no money in the budget - I guess we'll have to whip out the Master Card."

"Why oh why did our insurance bill arrive just when we had to pay for Sally's recital costume? Looks like it's Visa to the rescue again."

If you know these irregular expenses are headed your way, it would only make sense to set aside a small portion of each budget towards them. This, in a nutshell, is sinking funds.

How Sinking Funds Work

Christmas is an easy example. Let's say you calculate a need of $500 for your Christmas holiday (gifts, decorations, cards, extra food - the whole shebang). It's now March 7, about nine months away until the next season. If you didn't start saving for Christmas 08 in January 08, that means you have nine months to complete your Christmas 08 fund - and 500 divided by 9 is $55.56. That's how much you should list in "Christmas" as part of your regular, monthly budget.

(A side note: some people prefer to budget according to their paycheck, not just by the month. If this is you, and if you get paid biweekly, then you'll calculate how many paychecks you anticipate from now until Christmas, and divide into that number, not the months.)

Sinking Funds For Our Family: an example

Sinking funds is an easy enough concept. But like many things in life, it's one thing to use this method on paper; it's quite another to put your money where your… idea… is. Sinking funds can get really fuzzy and confusing when they're all lumped together in one savings account. Even when you keep detailed monthly records of what dollar is assigned to what, all this can rapidly become overwhelming. At least it did for me.

That's why sinking funds didn't work for us… until recently. Thanks to ING, we can open as many savings accounts as we want, and it doesn't cost us a dime. We can even customize each account with a different name, and we can seamlessly automate transfers from our checking account to our various savings accounts.

We currently have five savings accounts, respectively named "Emergency Fund," "Giving," "Holidays & Gifts," "Vacation," and "Work Expenses." Each month when our paycheck arrives, we have ING automatically transfer a set amount from our checking account into each of these accounts. Most of the money stays parked in these accounts for months at a time, until expenses arise that fit these categories.

When we need funds for these categories, we simply transfer the needed amount back into our checking account and use the amount for that expense. Very easy.

The Takeaway

I should mention that during debt elimination, the type of sinking funds you have should be limited to the necessities. For the most part, you don't need to focus on a family vacation or a new couch when your overarching financial goal is debt freedom. So limit sinking funds for things like quarterly and annual bills and necessities. When you're debt-free, then you can start saving for the extra stuff.

And like I said, I think sinking funds are crucial especially during a season of debt reduction. The last thing you want to do is accrue more debt. With a Baby Emergency Fund of $1,000 and some basic sinking funds in place, it becomes so much easier to know exactly how much you can pile on your debt snowball.

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I was talking with my sister a while back about investing and she was asking about some of the types of investments that I own. I am a passive investor and own mostly exchange traded funds. Since she is moving to Asia later this year, she doesn't have access to the same exchange traded funds that I do and was worried about missing out or not having the best investments. My answer for her was - don't worry about the exact investments you own - the main thing is your savings. If you spend less than you earn, hopefully a lot less than you earn, then you will be fine. You don't need to have the absolute best investment plan to secure your financial future.

What are savings?

I define savings as using your earnings to increase your net worth. If you earn $1000 and pay off some debt then you have saved that money and your net worth has increased. Normal savings of course, is when you have the actual cash and can keep it in the bank or invest it. Ultimately your financial security depends on how much money you have - how you got there doesn't really matter. Whether you invested in bonds, stocks, expensive mutual funds - whatever - that is not as important as how much money you saved in the first place.

Some proof

I set up a little financial model to show the effects of investment return compared to rate of savings. Basically I want to compare one person who save a lot of money but gets a low rate of return with another person who is a much better investor and consequently gets a higher rate of return - but they don't save as much. The question is who ends up with the most money?

Scenario

Saver Bob saves $10,000 per year and invests in a tax-free account. Saver Bob is very conservative and can't stand the thought of his investments declining in value so he invests in government bonds which pay 4% per year.
Trader Tim saves $5000 per year and also invests in a tax-free account. Trader Tim is very aggressive with his money and invests only in equities which have a higher expected rate of return compared to bonds, but are also a lot riskier since he can lose money. Trader Tim is a pretty successful and get 8% per year which is double that of Saver Bob's 4% return.
After 20 years, who has the most money? The saver with the low rate of return or the not-so-good saver with a much better rate of return? The answer is that Saver Bob wins the race by quite a bit. Saver Bob ends up with $320,000 which is 27% more than Trader Tim's total of $252,000.

Summary

We saw from our example that the investor who saved twice as much but got only half the return, ended up with a lot more money. The point is that you should put more effort into saving money rather than how to invest it. I'm not suggesting that it doesn't matter how you invest - just that it shouldn't get the same priority as the saving. Once you have your costs under control and feel like you have maximized your savings, then worry more about things like asset allocation, investments etc.
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I just got off the phone with my wife a short while ago, and she is being admitted to St. Francis Hospital in Shakopee. she had been having some leg pain and back pain since the weekend that has gotten steadily worse. She went in today because she was just feeling awful, and couldn't stand it anymore.

After doing a CT Scan the doctors found that she has 2 blood clots in her groin area that are actually very serious. They say if she hadn't come in, that she might have died.

They've admitted her to get her on blood thinning medications/etc right away, and she may be in the hospital for a few days at least.

If you could all pray for her over the next few days, we would really appreciate it.

UPDATE: She's resting in her room now, and will be undergoing tests tomorrow. Thank you for your prayers.

UPDATE 4/16: Thank you all for your comments. Just a quick update, she's resting fine today, wednesday, and is on blood thinners. At this point it sounds like there is little chance of the clots moving to her lungs (which is what they were worried about), but all the same she'll be in the hospital for a couple of days at least.

UPDATE 4/17: Maria had a tough day yesterday, she was in quite a bit of pain, and things weren't progressing as we had hoped. Her leg was having quite a bit of swelling, and it was pretty painful. They were able to get that pain and swelling mostly under control last night.

We had another CT scan last night as well just to make sure the clots weren't moving up at all, which can be dangerous. It doesn't look like they have.

We had a ultrasound this morning that shows that the clot is actually longer/bigger than we originally thought. It sounds like it is from her groin area almost to her ankle. The treatment course remains the same for now as far as I know though - blood thinners. Once the blood thinners begin their work the body should naturally begin breaking down the clot somewhat - although that can take a while. And it sounds like there will probably always be some residue from this clot in her veins.

Please continue praying for Maria, she's got some tough days ahead of her still.

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Over at www.rather-be-shopping.com they're running a contest to give away a cordless drill to some lucky soul who has told about their "smartest, dumbest, hardest, or frugalist (is that even a word?) Home Improvement Project or Repair Job that you have undertaken".

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The Project

My "frugalist" and "dumbest" home improvement project took place last summer.

We had just moved into our new house the previous fall, and it was late spring, early summer 2007. We decided that we'd like to spend a little more time outside, enjoying the weather while it lasted (here in Minnesota, you have to take advantage of the nice days while they're still here).

We decided to build a nice patio in our backyard so that we could sit outside and eat dinner, entertain or have a nice little campfire for those warm summer nights.

Then we looked into how much it was going to cost. For materials and labor it was going to cost us in excess of 1600-1700 dollars. Ouch! I decided that I would undertake this project on my own. By doing all the labor ourselves we would end up saving almost $1000 dollars on the patio because labor accounted for over half of the cost! Can you say frugal homeowner 101? I took a free class at our local Patio Town to make sure I understood how to build a patio. It was a bit more complicated than I anticipated. I thought it would just be me placing a bunch of bricks down on the ground next to each other. Boy was I wrong. You have to dig a deep pit, place aggregate rock, tamp it down, add sand, screed the sand, and the place bricks one by one. Its a job most people can do, but time consuming.

The Execution

We bought all of the materials that we would need to complete the job, and had them delivered on the Friday that we would begin work. As you can see in the picture our backyard was completely grassed over when we started. We would need to begin by digging an 8" pit by the house where we would be installing the patio.

Moving dirt is a lot harder than it looks. We spent the rest of the day Friday just digging out our 8" pit and moving the dirt to a construction site across the alley. End of day one.

On the beginning of day two we tamped down all the dirt in our big hole manually with a hand tamper. Most people are smart and get a mechanical tamper that does all the work for them. I went the frugal route and got the hand tamper figuring I could save the $30 rental charge. I would regret this later on because just about every muscle in my body was sore.

After tamping down the soil we had to put down aggregate rock/gravel to make a solid base for our brick patio. The aggregate came in large 50 pound bags. We dumped the bags into our pit, making a nice even base for our patio. Again, this took longer than expected, and by the end of the day we realized that we didn't have enough rock for our hole, we had dug it an inch or two too deep. We ran back to the home improvement store and bought another $200 worth of materials. My frugal job just became less frugal.

While we were loading all of our extra materials I felt something in my shoulder twinge and experienced a shooting pain. Although I didn't realize it at the time, it turns out I had torn something in my rotator cuff. I continued working through the pain.

After we returned to the job site, we put in the rest of the rock and finished tamping it down. End of day two.

On day three we began placing bricks. First, we poured sand over a small portion of rock aggregate, and screeded it (smoothed it out) using a straight piece of lumber. We carefully placed our bricks in the pattern that we had chosen, and by the end of the day, we had a new patio! After having some steps built for a couple hundred bucks a week or two later, we were done with our project! Total cost? Just over $1000 for a patio and stairs that normally would have cost over $2000.

Conclusion

So this was my most frugal home improvement project ever, but it was also my dumbest project ever. The reason it was the dumbest was because I pushed myself too hard to get the job finished in one weekend, and tore my rotator cuff. I ended up having to rehabilitate it for the next 6-7 months. Not fun!

So what's your "smartest, dumbest, hardest, or frugalist Home Improvement Project or Repair Job that you have undertaken"?

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Over at , the Festival of Frugality #121 - Tax Day Edition is now up!

My post, "Buying a new house is not cheap: Expenses not to forget when buying a new house" is included in the festival, as well as a ton of other great reads. In fact, here are a few of my favorites:

Madison presents 30 Money Saving Tips posted at My Dollar Plan.

Joe D presents If You Don’t Need It, It’s Not A Great Deal posted at Know The Ledge.

Flexo presents The Frugal Lifestyle: Are We Missing Out on Life? posted at Consumerism Commentary.

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John answered, "The man with two tunics should share with him who has none, and the one who has food should do the same." Luke 3:11

The Setup

Well, if you thought us personal finance bloggers had it all together and never made silly money mistakes, this week I decided to prove you wrong. BIG TIME.

I had a busy week last week, and to top it all off, my wife was sick. When I wasn't at work I was at home doing what I could to make her feel better. Making her soup, running to the store to get medicine and so forth.

When I was paying bills last week, I wasn't paying as much attention as I normally do, and I made a boo-boo.

After paying our mortgage, funding the 401k, and paying the rest of the utilities I saw that we had over a thousand dollars left over in the main spending account to put into our vacation savings account. I remember thinking, "wow, this is great -now we'll be going on that vacation sooner than I thought!". I quickly transferred over $1050 to our savings account, leaving myself a balance of about $120 until payday 7 days later. That should be more than enough!

The Mistake

Well, over the weekend I got a notice in the mail telling me that I had overdrafted my account. Not just once, or twice, but three times! I was being charged $102 in bank charges by my wonderful bank!

The overdraft notification showed charges that I had made, and accounted for. Why was I receiving these bank charges when my account should have over $100 in it?

And then it hit me. I had forgotten about our homeowner's association direct debit charge. The association bill was for $150. That would put me into the negative!

Normally I wouldn't have forgotten that expense, but this month the auto-debit transaction in Microsoft Money hadn't triggered, and the busyness of life just allowed me to forget it altogether. Now I have to pay a stupid tax for overdrafting my account when I had more than enough money in the bank to begin with.

I was able to call the bank and have all but $34 of the charges reversed, but the experience has still left a sour taste in my mouth. I just wish this bank had the free overdraft protection like my last bank did. That allowed me to avoid the stupid tax more than once.

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So, now that I've made my confession, what stupid money mistakes have you made recently? Leave a comment!


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When my wife and I bought a new house in 2006, it was an exciting time for us. We were living in a townhouse that we owned, but we just wanted a little bit more space than what we currently had.

We looked for a new home for almost 1 1/2 years, looking at both new construction and existing homes. After countless open houses, model homes, real estate agents and a lot of number crunching we finally bought a new construction house just down the road from where we lived.


The process of buying a new house was an expensive one, and one we'll be better prepared for next time. Here are just a few of the expenses we didn't fully realize we'd have - or how expensive they would be, when we purchased our home. Hopefully this list will allow you to go in with your eyes wide open.

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Over at Gather Little by Little, the 148th Edition of the Carnival of Personal Finance is up and live. Thanks go to glblguy for his hard work on the carnival this week, it looks to be a good one - lots of great submissions from all over the blogosphere!

My article, College Expenses: Should parents pay for their children’s tuition? is included in the mix, and I hope you'll give it a quick read!

Some of my other favorite reads this week include:

Emily at Taking Charge presents Presidential candidates have bad credit

The Simple Dollar presents How Big Should My Car Down Payment Be?

Master Your Card presents Why America NEEDS a Recession

Money & Fitness Blog presents Netflix vs. Redbox: Which is the better DVD rental service?

Uncommon Cents presents $4,000 Now, Nothing Later: the Beauty of the Roth IRA

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Whoever trusts in his riches will fall, but the righteous will flourish like a green leaf. Proverbs 11:28